First – To delight in the Self which to is to love God and be one with Him
Second- To be without attachments to anything else in the universe.
Religion is not for the purpose of securing a place in Heaven. It is an inquiry into Truth, and its ideal is the knowledge and the realization of the Truth. This True Love and non-attachment can be developed gradually by these means:
-By inquiry into the Truth with complete faith and reverence.
-By devotion to spiritual practices.
-By rendering of services to the great souls who have realized The Truth.
-By taking delight in the company of the exalted ones
-By avoiding association of the worldly-minded.
-By learning to love solitude.
-By injuring no creature by truthfulness.
-By studying the Scriptures (Knowledge of The Self)
-By control of the senses through Pranayama.(Deep breathing )
-By overcoming passions through right knowledge and discrimination.
-By respecting all other religions and not speaking against them
-By singing the praises and the Glory of Divinity.
-By patiently bearing the opposites in life, such as pain and pleasure , success and failure.
Thus will arise Love for The divine and non-attachment to the world.
- The Srimad Bhagavatam
( The sacred scripture of Hinduism full of Vedic wisdom, considered to be The Hindu Bible)